September Writing Challenge- Day 28

Prompt- Write about your sibling(s)

This is appropriate, seeing as it is my sister's birthday today. You'd think I planned to get this prompt today... Oh, wait! I did! ^_^

So, what to say about my little sister?

We'll start with a picture. Best way to go, I suppose. Here's last Christmas.

We're about 5 years apart in age. She loves to say that she never worries about getting old because I'll always be older. That may be true, but I've been told I look like the younger one. We've also been asked if we were twins and I just don't see it. Yeah, you can tell we're sisters. But, twins? Don't get it.

We have opposite personalities. I'm quieter and bookish. I keep my mouth shut, even when mad, unless highly provoked or pushed. I tend to keep things PC to avoid drama. She doesn't sugar coat. She'll tell you right off if she doesn't like you. Or, she just won't talk to you at all. She loves to antagonize and tease, but that runs in the family. We've both done our fair share of torment on each other.

Our relationship has changed over the years, as all do. But, for the better, I think. When we were little, we fought like cats. Sometimes ending with at least one of us in tears. And, the occasional bloodshed. Like the one time I tried to block her from coming into the bedroom and I got knocked into a nightstand. Still have a scar on my back. And, then, there was the time I ended up in the ER after she hit a baseball at my head. But, that was a complete accident.

We've grown up. Sure, we have our little spats once in a while but it's what siblings do. And, as part of growing up, our crazy lives mean we don't get to see each other much. But, we try as often as we can, whether it's just us going to lunch, a double date with the boys, or dinner with the family.

She's a tough cookie. I tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve. She keeps things in pretty well. I'm sure she rages and screams and throws things when alone. But, while I'm sobbing away, she keeps up a tough act.

We stick up for each other. Only one time have I really had an opportunity to defend her. Back in college, I never got reception with the cell service we had at the time while on campus. So, my mom would pick my sister up from school and send her in to get me. One day, a guy in the group I hung around with asked who she was. "My sister," I said. "Ooh, is she single? She's cute." "She's SIXTEEN," I snapped. (The guy was 22) "Okaay, not so cute anymore." He backed off and we all poked fun.

Basically, my sister is my first best friend and I couldn't ask for anyone better.

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 27

Prompt- I love my best friends because...

My best friends are just that. The best people I've ever known. They've had my back when I was bullied, facing heartbreak, had family members pass, or just been my usual crazy self and through it all they've stuck by me.

Distances haven't stopped us. I have a best friend who lives over 2500 miles away and, on those rare chances we are face to face, it's like we've never been apart. Even after years apart.

And, I know, life gets crazy. Obligations arise. Family life changes. People get married or have babies... or both Things happen out of the blue. Makes it difficult to spend time together. Even if friends don't live that far away, sometimes it can be weeks in between visits. Maybe even months. But, as long as, when you do finally visit, it's the same joy and fun as ever, then you know you have a friend for life.

I love those days when "Let's meet for an hour for lunch" turns into "3 hours later, standing in the parking lot still talking." Having a movie night in turns into laughing over YouTube videos for 4 hours in addition to the movie. "I'm upset and need cheering up" turns into drinks, driving around, and ending up at a playground until 2 a.m.

My best friends are people who are just as crazy as me, if not more. They are my shoulder to cry on, they support me, they slap me along side the head when I do something stupid. And, yes, I mean that literally in some cases. They're the people who are as much like family as anyone actually related by blood. Sometimes, even more so.

And who says you can only have one? I have 7! And I know they'll be by my side always. And I'll always do the same for them.

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 26

Prompt- Somewhere you would like to move

I think, if I could live anywhere, it would probably be somewhere out west, likely Oregon. They don't have the weather and temperature extremes that I go through here, especially in the winter when it hurts my knees so badly. Warm days don't have the extreme humidity so you're actually able to go out and enjoy the day while being able to breathe and not sweat to death. Winters aren't that cold and very little snow. I've seen pictures of fall, with that mountain scenery and it's incredible.

The people are really nice there, too. When my friend took me hiking, other hikers were cheering me on when I was having trouble. Here, I would have been laughed at or insulted somehow.

Cost of living is reasonable. No sales tax. Gas prices aren't much more drastic than they are here. Plenty of places to eat and shop and find entertainment. I could see myself and my guy settling down there someday... Just have to get him to go along with it is all. :)

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 25

Prompt- Five Places You Want to Visit Again

1) Portland, Oregon- When I was there 2 years ago, we barely spent a day in Portland before heading south to Eugene. Next time I'm there, I want to at least spend a full day or two there.

2) Washington DC- A history fanatic's dream place! I've been there three times and still haven't seen the whole city.

3) Key West, Florida- Now that I know someone there, it's all the more reason for me to return! The past 2 times I was in the Keys, we only took one day to spend in Key West. I really want to go back and see more. It's so beautiful there.

4) Grand Haven, Michigan- Went there on a family trip. It's a really cute little lakeside town. The naval museum was interesting to see and you can tour a submarine.

5) Pittsburgh, PA- I've been there twice. Once on a day trip with an ex and once to the casino with my family. It's a very pretty city. I love their botanical gardens and the museums. And, despite losing $100, their casino is really nice, too. Not a fan of the sports teams but the city itself is nice.

September Writing Challenge- Day 24

Prompt- What are your favorite stores to shop in?

Yay! A fun topic! I love to shop. And, I have a few stores that I always go to because I'm rarely disappointed.

For books- Books-a-Million, no question. That place is incredible and I'm always able to find what I'm looking for. They have a great selection. The stores are easy and sections well marked. And, they also have plenty of geekwear. I bought both of my sonic screwdrivers there and a few t-shirts. If I'm looking for something older, or just cheaper, I go to Half Price Books. That's where I found a majority of my Cousins War series. In next to perfect condition. If you look, you never know the treasures you can find at that place.

For clothes- I'm a plus size girl. And, a lot of the big stores like Target and WalMart, etc. have plus size sections but their clothes are... well... frumpy. I'm 30 years old. I still want to look cute and pretty and not like someone's grandmother just because I have curves. So, there are two primary places I go for nice clothes. They're a little pricier but they have good sales. Torrid is one. I like the styles they have. Very figure flattering. I bought a pretty dress there one time and a couple skirts. You have to look and try stuff on, though, because some of the cuts can be kind of low and revealing so be prepared to layer. The other is Lane Bryant. Over the summer I found 2 pretty maxi skirts that I love and have worn several times. Shirts, dresses, a jean jacket that I still have and need to dig out for the fall. This is also a great store for undergarments. They're always having bra and panties sales every couple of months so I save up and raid the clearance rack.

Craft stuff- Pat Catans, a primarily local chain, I believe. But, their prices are reasonable for things. I can usually load up on stickers there. For paper, I got to JoAnn Fabrics. They always have deals on paper packs. And, Hobby Lobby for yarn. They have the best selection. I will shop at Michaels, but usually if I have a gift card because they're a bit more expensive.

Jewelry/Accessories- Just about anywhere there's a good price I can find jewelry. I do have to be careful in the earring department because my ears are very sensitive and certain metals can cause problems. And, rings. Some rings the metal can turn my fingers green. But, I've found some good things over the years I've managed to hang on to.

That's a taste of where I shop. What about you? Any recommendations?

Thanks for reading!
Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 23

Prompt- Public speaking

Ah, the topic that has plagued me my entire life. Public speaking. I realize that if I want to be a published author, I'll have to work on overcoming my fear because I would likely to go on tour with my book, or at least have to say a few words at a launch party. But, it's an issue I've had ever since I was a kid.

Standing in front of a group of people- 20 or more sets of eyes focused on you standing there. Palms begin to sweat. Chest tightens, making it harder to breathe. This makes your head spin from lack of oxygen and all you want to do is wish for the floor to open up beneath you and swallow you up so you don't have to deal with it.

I have been getting better. Practicing by speaking to my camera when I do my videos helps me work on eye contact. I'm trying to minimize my awkward pauses and the number of times I say "Um." (This is also practical for live speaking and lessens my editing time)

I also like my dad's advice. When you get up to the podium or wherever you're speaking, look dead center, to your left, and to your right and tell every one in the audience (in your head, please) "I don't care what you say. I'm giving my piece and if you don't like it, tough." I did rephrase it a bit for appropriate audiences because he said it a bit differently. But, the meaning is the same.

How do you conquer your nerves when public speaking? Or doesn't it bother you?

Thanks for reading!
Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 22

Prompt- My muscles were sore after...

My muscles were sore after climbing Spencer's Butte in Oregon. But, just look at that view!

I had no idea when my friend, Richard, said, "Let's go hiking," that I would be scaling a mile up trail. Half of it was climbing the rocks.

I live in northern Ohio. Primarily flatland. So, a hike for me is going to the park and walking the bike path for a few miles. No problem. With enough time, and a few breaks, I can probably do a total 4 mile walk easy peasy. But, walking on an incline for half a mile and then scaling the rocks for another half? Totally different story! It's not that I'm afraid of heights. Because I'm not. I'm afraid of falling from those heights.

We took frequent breaks while on the regular path part. Richard was really great about it when I said I had to stop. The dogs were a little more impatient. His little chihuahua didn't want to stop at all. When we got to the rocks, he would take off a ways ahead with the dogs. I'd go a few feet and then had to stop. Go a few feet, then stop. But, Richard wouldn't let me give up. "Come on!" he would call. "You're the Pink Ranger! You got this!" "Yeah, well, the Pink Ranger is a bit out of shape right now," I'd call back. And, other people climbing were really sweet. I'd stop for a break and someone passing would say, "You're almost to the top. Don't stop now." No one back home would be that encouraging. I'd probably get laughed at, called a fat @$$ and then they would move right along.

And, getting back down was a challenge on the rocky part because my knees don't bend that well with my RA so I felt like I was going to lose my balance. Fortunately, Richard helped me. He held my hand and showed me where to step that was easiest.

We managed to make it to the car before dark. The sun was just beginning to set. We drove into town and had dinner. And realized what a mess we both were with dirt smeared on our faces. So, we did wash up before we ate. Then, we got back to the house, both took hot showers, and then sat in the hot tub. Thank goodness we did because I definitely wouldn't have been able to move next day.

So, that was my rock climbing adventure. I do want to do it again. (But, be in better shape for it) Just need to get back out west so, Richard, if you're reading this, let me know a date and I'll start saving. :)

Thanks for reading!

September Writing Challenge- Day 21

Prompt- 5 Simple Ways to Add More Joy to Your Life

1) Don't sweat the small stuff. Easier said than done sometimes but it does help. Not letting a small slight completely ruin your day. There's always someone who will try and ruin your day. You just have to smile and move on. Even if the smile directed at the person is fake.

2) Be thankful for every day- This has really hit home for me recently. I found out that a young lady I went to school with recently passed away of a blood clot, similar to what I had. Except, where I was fortunate enough to catch it, it had detached and went to her heart. She was only a few months older than me. So, I've made a point to be thankful for every day I am able to wake up in the morning.

3) Smile- Even if it's fake at first. I've learned, especially working with people, that even fake smiles can make a difference. If someone is feeling down, a smile and kind word can make their day. If someone is being nasty, a smile and kind word will probably throw them off at first but then can sometimes turn their mood around.

4) Call your loved ones- Don't text. Call. Have an actual conversation. Especially if it's to someone you don't see all that often. A friend or a family member who lives out of state or something. It can make a world of difference and keeps your relationship close.

5) Don't forget to say "I Love You"- Need I say more?

September Writing Challenge- Day 20

Prompt- Dream Job

This is easy! My dream job is being a published author. I can do what I love for a living. I can come and go as I please. I can travel all over whenever I want. No more ringing groceries and standing all day killing my back and knees. Not that it's a bad job. Everyone has to eat, of course. But, I've been doing it since I was 16. I'm done with it and with my current health issues, my body can't take it.

And, it's so monotonous. Ring, pack, ring, pack, payment. Next. That's why I write, either working on my novels or these blog challenges. It's something to keep my brain from turning to mush and dribbling out my ears.

And, I love how, when I write, I can escape into a world of my own and do things I could never do in real life. Like, travel to a medieval fantasy land and save a kingdom. Or, battle werewolves or fight along side the Power Rangers... Oh, ha! That was a fan fiction I wrote. Not a part of my novels.

I'd love to be able to go to conventions like BEA to promote my book and meet other authors and fans. And, being self published means I can set my own deadlines and schedule... I just have to work on sticking to them and not being distracted. I'll save that for something boring, like cleaning.

And, how many people in this world can really say their passion is their job? Something that never gets boring or monotonous. You wake up every morning and say, "I can't wait to keep going on this project" or "I just got new inspiration for a story." What can be better than that?

Thanks for reading!

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 19

Prompt- An irrational phobia

Spiders.

I.

Hate.

Spiders!

They freak me out! I get all squirmy at the sight of even a web, and we have 2 big ones outside in our yard. One on the patio and one on our swing. I know they're good. They eat bugs like mosquitoes but do they have to be so icky looking? Why can't they be pretty? Like the poisonous frogs you see in the rainforest?

I think what really ruined me was watching the movie Arachnophobia when I was 12. I was having a sleepover for my birthday and one of my friends brought it over. A movie about killer spiders being watched by 4 pre-teen girls in a basement? That would have a fantastic ending. We didn't make my mother very happy. There was a tiny, harmless spider on the ceiling and we all began screaming. Mom was already asleep but she woke up and came down to squish it for us. Needless to say, we stuck to Disney for the rest of the night in our movie selection.

If I find one in the house, which is rare, I am able to squish them... if they're small enough. I squeal and squirm while doing so. But, I get the job done. There are few things more terrifying than waking up in the morning and seeing a spider on your bedroom wall. Talk about motivation to get out of bed! That happened a few times while my room was in the basement. (Another reason I came back upstairs)

I don't really know why I have this fear. But, isn't that the meaning of phobia? No rational explanation? Maybe I'll overcome it someday. Or, it's just something I have to live with.

What about you? Do you have a fear of spiders? What are your phobias?

Thanks for reading!
Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 18

Prompt- Old photo of me and the story behind it

This has to be one of my favorite pictures ever. This was taken when I was in the 5th grade, just before I turned 11. I was in a musical theater group and this was just after one of our performances. We did Gilbert and Sullivan's 'Mikado,' hence the wig and the kimono. My grandparents all came to support me, even though I was only an extra. But, they were awesome like that.

On the left side is my grandma Veronica. She's my dad's mom. We lived with her from the time I was about 8 after my grandpa passed until she passed in 2007, just before my sister graduated high school. We were very close and told each other everything. She was an incredible cook and always made tons of cookies for Christmas every year. When I started working at a grocery store in high school, she would slip me her credit card and tell me to bring home goodies. She loved to read romance novels and was the one who introduced me to Nora Roberts' books. But, she also read the Harlequin books. And, some of them were bordering on what I imagine Fifty Shades would be like. So, I never read them. I think I tried reading one and had to put it down.

The pair on the right are my mom's parents, Grandpa Steve and Grandma Victoria. Two of the most amazing people I ever knew. Grandma also loved to cook and bake. She's the one who taught my mom and aunts how to make homemade pierogies and they are now teaching me and my cousins. She always had a kind word for us kids, even when we were having a bad day. She was little but mighty. No one crossed her or hurt her family or you'd get an ear full. Grandpa loved to talk, especially when there was food on the table. For a while he and my dad had a weekly dinner tradition. And, I would tag along, too, if I didn't work. They'd go to a local Chinese buffet and sit and eat and talk for a couple hours. Or, rather, Grandpa would talk and we'd listen. He loved to tell stories. Sometimes, he would embellish them a bit but we never knew otherwise.

I miss them all very much and when I look at this picture I can't help smiling at all the memories I have of them.

Thanks for reading!

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 17

Prompt- What do you collect?

Over the years I've collected a number of things. Some were "the thing to have" like Pogs- these little cardboard disc things that everyone collected and traded when I was a kid. I even collected YuGiOh cards for a little while.

Now, I don't have too much I collect. I'm trying to keep the clutter to a minimum. Especially, if I move. I want less to haul. My car isn't that big.

When I started to travel, I began collecting post cards of wherever I went. They were a great way to get pictures I wasn't able to or the pictures didn't come out. And, I liked the little blurbs on the back of them about various landmarks. I could write notes to myself about my experience to use later in journaling in my scrapbooks. They also have become quite a nice collage on my bedroom wall. I'm running out of space. But, I haven't gone anywhere recently so it hasn't mattered much.

Along with post cards, when I travel I try to buy a shot glass from every place I visit. I'm not a big drinker but they're small and easy to put in my carry-on bag so they don't break. I have a little shelf in my room where they sit right now. If I move, I'll have to find somewhere else to put them. But, that shouldn't be too hard. I could get a curio cabinet like my mom has. Then they wouldn't get as dusty. Some just have the place I visited. Some have fun sayings on them or pictures.

There's also my ever growing personal library. A variety of genres fill my shelves from YA to historical fiction romance to even non-fiction. My sister was teasing me the other day after my last book haul. "There's a such thing as a library," she said. "Well, as my overdue fines will prove, I have a hard time giving books back. So, it's easier to just buy them." She just made a face at me. I don't care. I like my books.

What about you?

Thanks for reading!
Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 16

Prompt- Favorite movies you never get tired of watching

I have a few of these and some of them drive my family crazy. So, I usually just watch them when I'm home alone.

1) Moulin Rouge- This is the movie that made my best friend and I, well, best friends. It was released to DVD when I was a senior in high school and we were both obsessed with it. She saw it first and constantly talked about it. So, one day, I went to her house in between when school let out and we had to be back for theater practice and we watched it. I went out and bought the soundtracks (there are 2) and the DVD myself and watched it over and over. We listened to the soundtrack every day at lunch and sang the songs all the time. Every now and then, I'll feel nostalgic and dig out my DVD. I've had to buy it a few times over the years because the disc would wear out from being used so much. This movie is not one for children. But, if you love musicals and incredible visuals and romance, this is a wonderful movie.

2) Princess Bride- "She gets captured, he gets killed, but it all turns out okay." This 80s classic is one I will never get tired of. It has everything. Sword fighting, romance, fairy tale castles, magic, bad guys, princesses, pirates. And, Andre the Giant? If you haven't seen this yet, first, Hello, welcome to planet Earth and Intro to Awesome 101. Second, go out to the nearest movie retail store and BUY IT! Then, grab some popcorn and settle in for a time honored classic adventure for everyone.

3) Robin Hood, Men In Tights- The genius that is Mel Brooks. Need I say more? I do? Okay, then. The original spoof master created one of the best Robin Hood adaptation films I've ever seen. It's hilarious. Everything you love about Robin Hood- the swashbuckling, the love story, the familiar characters- all are there but in a way that kind of makes fun of them and twists things around a bit. Example: Instead of Friar Tuck, it's Rabbi Tuckman. (Played by Mel Brooks himself) It is not for the easily offended because Mel Brooks makes a lot of crude, rude jokes in his films but I've been watching his movies since I was a kid when I didn't understand them so they don't bother me anymore.

4) Hotel Transylvania- This is a kids movie, yes. I first saw clips of it at work. We have a play area where people can drop their kids off while they shop. I work in there sometimes and it was around Halloween so it was a good time for a monster movie. This is absolutely adorable. Animated movie about classic monsters, but instead of them being scary to us, they're scared OF us. Dracula builds a hotel in the middle of a forest in Transylvania where monsters can come and stay without the fear of humans with their angry mobs, torches, and pitchforks. It's the image all the monsters have of humans because that's all they ever knew. It's Dracula's daughter's 118th birthday and there is a unexpected guest to the party. Johnny, a human, wanders into the hotel. What happens? Well, I'm not going to give it away. With Halloween coming up, this is a great movie to share with the kids. Ranks right up there with Hocus Pocus on my list of best Halloween movies. Gives you an idea of my taste and that I am entirely NOT into the really scary stuff at all!

5) 1776- Another musical! Shocker! Not really, I love musicals! And, this is incredible. The version I have is from the 1970s, I believe. Bought it on iTunes. I am unaware of any remakes. Unless you count the stage productions over the years, because it was originally a Broadway play. It's about the Continental Congress and the writing of the Declaration of Independence. It makes fun of all the party politics of then and now. Even though there were no set parties as of yet in the country, there were certainly factions fighting each other. Those for and against independence from England. Those for and against the slavery clause in the Declaration. Those for and against John Adams and his ranting and hot temper. There's humor (sometimes crude, lot of times from Ben Franklin) and drama mixed in with enough history to make you want to read about the event in more detail. Plus, William Daniels, aka Mr. Feeny, is John Adams. And, the man can sing! I never knew!

6) Knights Tale- Ah, medieval love stories. Knights in shining armor, beautiful ladies, scheming villains, and 70s rock. Wait, what? Yeah, the whole movie is set to 70s rock. The opening song is Queen's "We Will Rock You" and the peasants, and even the nobility, are dancing and singing along as they watch the tournaments. But, that adds to the fun of this movie. I love the big dinner dancing scene. I'm not all that familiar with David Bowie but, man, do I want to learn that dance to Golden Years. Also, the late Heath Ledger is so handsome and so incredible in this movie. I like him in this role- the fun loving, I'm gonna touch the stars, peasant boy traveling with his three hilarious companions. The only other movie I watched of his was Dark Knight, made shortly before his death. And, I can't get through the whole thing. It's just too sad. It also has one of the best lines about writing I've ever heard. After settling his gambling debts, Geoffery Chauser (Yes, the based on the famous medieval writer) makes a threat to his debtors. "I will eviscerate you in fiction. Every pimple. Every character flaw. I was naked for a day. You will be naked for eternity." It's what a lot of writers I know want to do. If there is someone who bullied you, then you could base a character on them and over exaggerate everything about them. And, if they don't like you (or you use a pen name) they'll never know you're making fun of them. It's a subtle, nonviolent revenge.

7) Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat- Yet another musical! Also, a stage production. I have the Donny Osmond version. Admittedly, I'm not a huge fan of him but everything else about this production is so much fun. And, the entire musical brings back childhood memories. I was in musical theater and when I was in 6th grade, we did this same show. It was one of my personal favorites. The visuals and the music are incredible and catchy. The characters are so much fun. And, it's a wonderful story. Some people don't like that it's a dramatized version of a Biblical story. But, people say that when anything from the Bible is dramatized. Jesus Christ Superstar is a prime example. Also a favorite of mine, but my dad said he remembered a lot of protests about it when it first came out. Or, all the things people said about Mel Gibson when he made his Passion film. And, I'm sure people made comments about the latest Noah film, which I actually want to see. I'm curious.

8) Princess Diaries 2- Anne Hathaway, how I adore you and your cuteness! I enjoyed the first Princess Diaries very much. Anything that has a happy ending for the quiet, awkward girl, I'm all for. But, this one, where she's a bit more grown up and coming of age, is even better. I adore the love story. The setting is gorgeous. And, who wouldn't want Julie Andrews to be their grandmother? She's amazing!

9) Ever After- Another princess story! I'm such a girl! And a hopeless romantic. Drew Barrymore is Danielle, our Cinderella-type figure. It's a more "real life" version of the story. No fairy godmother. She has to figure things out for herself to make her life better. And, she risks her heart for it. I laughed. I cried. I thought Angelica Houston made a fantastic step mother. She's scheming, snobbish, and mean and sometimes you just want to take her by the shoulders and shout, "What is wrong with you?!" The differences in the two daughters is a refreshing touch to the story. Marguerite is the pampered, spoiled favorite. And Jacqueline is the softspoken, sometimes picked on one. If they didn't have Danielle to harass, they would probably have focused more on Jacqueline. Another love story for the ages.

10) Frozen- And finally! My guilty pleasure. I'm sure, by now, everyone is sick of hearing about this movie, or hearing the song on the radio. But, I adore this movie. I loved how it was about the bond of sisters and you don't have to have a man for true love. The love of family is just as powerful. Idina Menzel as Elsa- She has the voice for it. And, I do love that song. Kristen Bell playing Anna is so cute. I love how awkward and funny Anna is and she ends up saving the day. If you haven't seen it, but are curious about the hype, check this movie out. (Some) grown ups love it. Kids love it. It's a fun, family movie.

So, that's my 10 movies I can't get enough of. It's quite a list. But, if I didn't stop at 10, I'd be writing forever.

Are any of these on your list? Comment below.

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 15

Prompt- Recipe fail

This is not exactly a fail but it could have been. My favorite treat from childhood is caramel rice crispy treats. My grandmother would make them every summer for us, sometimes multiple times if we were good because we would just gobble them up. I would help her by unwrapping the caramel because I would not eat them as I did so... not too many, anyway. Had to sample one or two to make sure they were okay. So, I thought it was a pretty simple recipe. Melt caramel, dip big marshmallows, roll in cereal, let set.

After she passed, I wanted to make them for a party. I had been craving them for a long time and finally had an opportunity. I stood at the stove with the double boiler set up and the caramels melting but something wasn't right. They were turning out too thick! I didn't want to burn it because I didn't want to make it over again. While I'm standing there wondering like an idiot, my mother actually dug out Gram's cookbook. She read the recipe then went to the cabinet and refrigerator to grab the two ingredients I was missing. To reach the right consistency, I needed butter and sweetened condensed milk. Once I added those, everything worked out just like I remembered when I was little.

Of course, there was the obligatory teasing about how I should actually read the cookbook. But, everything worked out.

September Writing Challenge- Day 14

Prompt- I was wrongly accused of...

This is kind of a silly one. It was aggravating at the time but I can look back on it now and laugh. I was wrongly accused of picking my nose in public.

Now, listen to the whole story first and you'll see why I find this so funny. At my job, we have a Halloween dress up every year. We host a little indoor trick-or-treat where we have treat stations throughout the store and the kids can go around and get something from all the departments. For some added fun, they allow the workers to dress up as well. So, about 4 or 5 years ago, I was a geisha girl. I had made this costume (with my mom's help because I don't sew) and did my hair and face all up and I loved this costume. I thought I looked pretty cool. The fabric trim and the belt were made from scraps I found that had this incredible dragon print that I loved. And, my hair was long enough to go in a bun and I had hair sticks that my friend gave me.

Only flaw to the costume was the make-up. I bought some really pale concealer in a popular brand and used it to make my face look lighter like I'd seen in the movies. I thought it would be fine. This particular brand was a good quality and it looked good. But, my skin is very sensitive with stuff like that. Maybe because I never wear stuff like that. So, while at work, my face began to itch. I stopped for a moment to scratch an itch that was driving me crazy on the side of my nose. That's when the customer got mad at me. Of course, when someone wants to make the complaint, they do not speak to the person they have an issue with. Oh, no. That would be too easy. Then their complaint would be easily resolved and no drama would be caused. Where's the fun in that?? So, he went to the customer service desk and raised a fuss. My register was nearby but I was just out of earshot. But, I saw a lot of hand gestures and pointing at me. The girl who took his complaint assured him he would have a talk with me and when he stormed out she came over laughing.

"Do you know what he said?" she asked. I shook my head. "He accused you of picking your nose."

"What? Ew! My face was itchy from this make-up and I've been scratching all day. Maybe he somehow interpreted it wrong from his angle in line?"

She shrugged. "I have no idea. But, I thought you'd get a laugh out of it." We both did, I think.

So, that was it. It's still one of my favorite costumes. I kept it for future use when I can't think of something else. It's my go-to last resort like my poodle skirt or Fem 11 that I've kept in a bin in my closet.

There is no shortage of insanity at my day job. Comes with working with the public, I suppose.

Thanks for reading!
Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 13

Prompt- If you could have dinner with 5 people (alive or dead), who would they be and why?

I've had to think long and hard about this one just to narrow it down to five people!

1) Abraham Lincoln- Our greatest President ever, in my opinion anyway. I've read a number of books about his life and tragic death and often wondered what it would be like to talk to him in person. I have so many questions I would want to ask him about living in that time of the Civil War and what he would have done had he been able to finish his second term. What would he have done differently than his successor? What he thinks of the world today? The good, bad, and indifferent. How would he deal with our idiot politicians? Technology then and now? And the list goes on.

2) Pope Francis- I LOVE this man! From the moment he was announced as the new Pope and he stepped out onto the balcony, I loved him. He is just so humble and great and not afraid to ruffle a few feathers to get his point across. Being the first man from the Americas to become Pope is already an accomplishments. He also is on social media. I love following him on Twitter.
The cartoon on the side is a perfect example of how wonderful and different he is. He is such a wonderful example of faith and love of the Lord and people. It's refreshing to see someone sincere like that. Not that prior Popes weren't. Also love the newly sainted John Paul II. (We had a watch party for his canonization back in April) But, in my lifetime, this is a rare sight.

3) Karen Gillan- Having a little fun now and inviting along one of my favorite actresses. I loved her as Amelia Pond in Doctor Who and might check out her new show later this month. I think she would be so much fun to hang out with. She's gorgeous. I love her accent. And, she seems like that fun to be with, girl next door-type of person.

4) Philippa Gregory- My favorite author of ever! Her Tudor books are fantastic. I'm currently reading the Cousins' War series. (I should get the final in the mail this week) First, I would have her sign all my books I own by her. I would gush and fangirl tell her I hope I write half as good as she does so my books can have the same impact on someone else as she has had on me. She would probably think I was crazy but hopefully she would be understanding and just smile and go with it.

5) John Barrowman- Now, if my friends read this they're probably wondering this: "She mentioned Karen Gillan but not Matt Smith? Or any of the other Doctor actors?" Well, I would love to meet all of them but I had to be selective for this list so I chose the dashing Captain Jack as my final person. I follow him on social media and seen videos of interviews on YouTube. He seems like a highly entertaining and enthusiastic person, not only while in character. He smiles and laughs and isn't afraid to drop a dirty joke here and there. When he gives interviews, he's open about a lot of topics and, as I said, so enthusiastic. He loves what he does and it shows and I want to emulate that amount of passion in my own work.

So, those are my five. It was a tough list to make. But it was fun. What are your five?

Thanks for reading!

September Writing Challenge- Day 12

Prompt- What do you think people misunderstand most about you?

This is a big one I experience a lot at work and when I was in school. And, I think it applies to many people.

It's a common misconception about quiet people. Quiet = weak/submissive/insert similar adjectives here But we're not. Being quiet, at least for me, means I know how to hold my tongue. Or, I have no other choice but to do so in some cases. Like at my day job, for example. I work with the public. I really have to censor myself. When a customer is nasty with me and thinks because I work at a grocery store, I am stupid and he/she can just disrespect and trash talk me over something trivial, I have to hush until I go on break or go home. Then, I can sit in the car for a few minutes and say everything I wanted to say to the person's face but couldn't because I'd be fired.

This doesn't mean I haven't slipped. There is a coworker I'm always knocking heads with. I've mentioned her before in previous posts. (Enjoying two weeks of her being on vacation. *happy dance*) She has spread rumors about how I fake my health issues just to get out of work or gain sympathy. She has accused me of mouthing off to her when I've said nothing, in an attempt to not scream out that I think she's a fire breathing bitch to her face. But, even the most patient people have a limit of what they can take and I did lose my temper with her once. She snapped at me over something stupid and I was trying to keep quiet. She thought I mumbled something and was getting on my case. I told her I didn't say anything. She wouldn't drop it. She started talking about it to another coworker who 1) is a friend of mine and 2) was still well within earshot. I couldn't take it anymore. Customers were overhearing the names she was calling me and I was being humiliated. I shouted, "I didn't say anything to you so back off. You are acting like an idiot child talking about me five feet away and in front of customers." My friend was a little frightened. She told me later she had never seen me lose my temper before and I said it was really hard to keep myself from completely let loose because I probably would have inserted a few expletives while I was yelling. But, she was already being inappropriate so I didn't want to play her game. Someone had to be the bigger person.

I describe my temper as a volcano. Dormant, quiet, patient usually. But, each time I'm pushed, the pressure builds and it gets harder and harder to stay quiet until BOOM! It's 1980 Mt. St. Helen. I think it was because I stayed quiet for so many years as a kid/teen and it did little to no good for me. About time I learned to stand up for myself.

And, this runs in the family. My mom is the same. And when family is involved, it's even harder for us to keep quiet because we're, for the most part, a close-knit bunch. A few years ago, some family members were insulted and hurt by someone and my mother went off. She had been wanting to say what she said for many years and was finally pushed to the point where she didn't care anymore and got it all out. She always tries to be the peacekeeper of the family. "Let's work it out like civil people." But, when someone you love is hurt, verbally or otherwise, you jump right in and defend them to the moon and back.

Now you know!

Thanks for reading.

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 11

Prompt- What was this day in 2001 like for you?

When I was planning these prompts, I came across this one worded slightly differently and I debated it for today. I thought, 9/11, of course. But, would it be cliche? Because a lot of people are probably writing about this day and how it changed their lives. But, then I thought, that's sad that I would even consider it being cliche. Because it's not. It's a day that we should continue to remember, like Pearl Harbor or Oklahoma City. Because, while it is a tragedy, it impacted the world in so many ways and, maybe for a brief moment, brought people together under a cause.

Over the years, some of the details have faded in my memory but I know where I was and what I was doing on that horrible day. I was a senior in high school. I left my first class to set up banners from the day before. The 9th grade retreat was that Monday and there were banners and crafts the freshmen class had created so some of the retreat team were displaying them in the cafeteria for the rest of the school to see. When I returned to my class to get my books, they were airing when the President was informed at the school in Florida. I didn't know what was going on until I got to my second class, which was Web Design. My teacher filled me in and had the news on, as long as we promised to try and get our work done.

And, that was when we saw the second tower get hit and then they both fell. It was the most frightening thing I had ever seen in my 17 years of life. I remembered reading a story about a clothing factory in New York that caught fire in the early years of the last century and how the girls trapped inside were leaping from the window because the elevator didn't work. Everyone above where the planes hit, they had no way out and some did jump. And, the people who were still making their way down when the towers fell.  My next thought was, "Oh, dear God, be with all those people trapped inside and now dying!" I couldn't focus on my work. I was fixated to the screen. I prayed harder than I ever prayed in my life. I was scared for all those people. I was scared about what would happen next. When we heard about the Pentagon, I was worried about where something would happen next. And, later that day to find the plane that crashed in PA was in Cleveland!

The day passed by in a blur. My remaining third class, choir, we couldn't watch anything. But, my final class, we watched the news. When the bell rang at 2:30, I went to catch my bus but my mom was there to get me. We picked up my sister and went home. After dinner, we watched the news while doing homework and then we all curled up on the couch together like when we were little. I think I remember my sister asking why this happened and the only explanation my parents could give was that there are some evil people in the world who don't want the rest of us to be happy. They want people to be scared. Makes them feel powerful. It was as good an explanation as any to a 17 and 12 year old, I guess.

But, then, when Congress gathered on the steps of the Capitol and sang God Bless America... together, forgetting differences in party and opinion, I remembered that good exists and what we need to work on doing is make sure the good always outweighs the evil.

I know that can be hard when there are organizations of hate like ISIS in the Mid East and the Klan here. When children are committing suicide for being gay or an autistic boy is having human waste dumped on him in a sadistic prank when he thought he was doing the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge. When football athletes, who are viewed as role models for young boys, beat their spouses. Certain organizations who are supposed to follow Christian teachings protest funerals of soldiers and say they are going to hell because they fought for their country. Stories like that seem to flood our headlines and it makes the world into a frightening place to be. I've often caught myself saying, I don't think I want to bring children into a world like this. But, then I see the joy in my best friend's toddler when he's playing with my boyfriend on our occasional visits. I get a hug from a little girl who sees me every day in the store. I see organizations like NOH8, the No Body Shame Campaign, and Eliminate Prejudice all fighting for equality and against bullying based on gender, orientation, body type, race, and religion/beliefs. If only those positive things received more press than the negative.

If we could focus on the good, it would not eliminate the bad but it maybe it would help future generations see there are better ways to spend their time and better causes to fight for.

Thanks for reading.
Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 10

Prompt- Cast for the movie (or TV) adaptation of your novel

My ideal cast would only be if I had a time machine and could get their younger versions. So, this is truly a dream list because I'd never get a majority of these people.

Tara- Young Alyson Hannigan- I know she did the witch thing with Buffy but I just loved her in that role.

Marissa- a young Natalie Dormer: She played Anne Boleyn in the Tudors and will be Cresida in Mockingjay. But, I love her look. Dark hair, those wonderful blue eyes.

Gran- Karen Gillan: She would have to dress as an old woman but Gran is Scottish so she would be the first to come to mind.

Henry- Not sure. He's the one you start to like until his true colors are revealed later on. Maybe Channing Tatum? Because if you're going to hate him, may as well make him cute. He would have to grow out his hair, though.

Darien Moon- Jonathan Rhys Meyers: I was watching the Tudors the other day and I was captivated by his eyes. Also, he's scary when he has to do a scene where his character loses his temper.

Lilia Moon- Juliet Landau: Loved her as Drusilla in Buffy and I think she would just as enchanting as Lilia.

Nana- Florence Henderson? So far, Nana is the smallest role yet. But, that could change in coming books. I haven't figured it out yet. But, she was the only name to come to mind.

Michael- younger Nicolas Brendan- Michael is that kind of geeky adorable.

Christine- Emma Watson: Still another part I wish I could get a younger version. But, I think she would be so great in this part.

Mrs. Kavanagh- Bellamy Young: You know her as Mellie Grant on Scandal. Well, Mrs. Kavanagh can have that much of a bitch level. A small on screen role (so far) but her character is critical to the story.

Mr. Kavanagh- David Tennant- Mr. Kavanagh is my main character's father. So far a small role but that may change as the series goes on. And he's still a crucial part of the story. Plus, it's David Tennant!!!

So, that's a snippet of the primary cast of my first 2 books thus far. (Still outlining book 2) As I said, this is a complete dream because I envisioned younger versions of some of these actors as my characters.

September Writing Challenge- Day 9

Prompt- 5 things I would do if money were no object

Oh, I could have some fun with this. Having a minimum wage job and busting my bucket on a daily basis for less than enough, I have these dreams a lot. So, here is my list of things I would do if money were no object.

1) MOVE! As in, out of my parents' house! Yes, I still live with Mom and Dad. But, remember what I just said about minimum wage job? And, being off sick for over a month didn't exactly help my finances. Ideally, I'd like to move to another state. At least, temporarily. Just to have the experience. I have lived in Ohio my whole life. I'd live in or around DC but I would definitely need the cash for it and then some because the cost of living there is nearly triple what it is here. The Florida Keys are nice but... hurricanes. Don't think I could deal. If I could live anywhere, based only on my travels, it would have to be Oregon. When I visited there, I saw what a beautiful city it is. They people are so nice. There are tons of things to see and do. Only a two hour drive from Portland with even more exciting things to do and see and is one of the prettiest cities in the country. I could find all sorts of writing inspiration there. I'm sure my guy could find work in his field there, too. And, I'd be with that smiling adorable face in the photo above. Richard is one of my oldest and dearest friends and we wouldn't have to wait 6 years to see each other if I lived there!
I would be sad about missing my family but, we're talking money not being an object. So, I could either fly back to visit whenever or move them out west with me! Why not, right?

2) Have a huge library in my house. Yes, a library. I may even need a building separate from my house, but on the property, because I'm talking Beauty and the Beast style, multiple stories with rolling ladders, fireplace, and the lot. Then, I would not have to worry about space for my book collection. And, I'd even have a corner for my guy and his comic books. Ha! No, I'd have more than a corner for him because he has a LOT of comics. Some he's even gotten signed so I know he would want to keep those in good condition. And, I this could also double as my writing studio. I'd be surrounded by inspiration. Need an idea or my brain is burned out, just grab a book, read for an hour, and jump back into it. I'd also fill it with all kinds of fun seating. Couches, bean bag chairs, just piles of big, fluffy pillows. The ideas are endless for this one.

3) Travel. Look at that picture of Mallory Square in Key West and tell me that isn't gorgeous! I dare you! And that is just one place in one state in one country. There's so much in my own country that I have yet to see. I can only imagine what other treasures the world holds. Seeing it on TV is COMPLETELY different than experiencing it first hand. The few places I have had the pleasure to travel to is only a teeny tiny sample of what else is beyond the borders of my little hometown. When I get excited about traveling an hour or two away to visit a friend or to go to Comic Con, you know I've been cooped up here too long.

4) Help my family out. My parents want to fix up the house. My sister has student loans. My one amazing aunt needs a vacation. If I had the financial means, I'd take care of all these things for my family. They do so much for me. How can I not? My family does so much for me and supports me through everything I've ever wanted to do. They've stood by me and held my hand when I was scared and sick in the hospital. They have been my biggest cheerleaders when it comes to my writing. I've always said if I had the means I would help them out in any way I could. I would also host a big, destination family reunion. There are some relatives we only get to see a couple times a year, maybe. And, every time, we say "We need to get together more" or "We need to keep in touch better" but it never happens.

5) Find a cure for rheumatoid arthritis. This is definitely on my list of priorities. Having dealt with this awful condition for nearly 6 years and knowing so many people who are also in the fight themselves (I'm on several support groups on Facebook) I know the pain and frustration that comes along with it. Not being able to really enjoy yourself because you know the next day you'll be sore and paying for it. And, the fact that people younger than me are dealing with it. Children, even! And, I get discouraged at 30 not feeling my age. A poor little kid feeling like I do? I can't even imagine. I think when I establish my writing career more and have the means, I'll set up my own foundation for research funding. If I can't do that, I'll definitely donate to already existing ones.

So, that's my top 5. No particular order. What would you do if money were no object?

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 8

Prompt- Do you write about everything in your blog or is some stuff protected from publication? Where do you draw the line?

I try to be as open as I can when I write in my blog because I want my readers to know about my life... But, there are some things I try to protect. This is not my diary where I can be completely honest and unrestricted in my feelings. So, I'm open and honest about just about everything to a point.

I don't want people to know exactly where I live so I refrain from saying my exact city. I am proud to be Ohio and living near the beautiful city of Cleveland. So, that I will talk about.

Names I try to either not say at all or I'll create nicknames, especially for kids. Some of my friends have small children and I will not say their names. I refer to family members as "Sis" or "Mom" etc. Cousins, aunts, uncles, etc., I may use initials or nicknames.

I will post pictures on occasion but rarely. I'll never post pictures of my friends' kids. I usually post pictures when I'm referring to something. Like my day 2 post when I was talking about my mom's birthday.

I try to keep Day Job topics completely out of my blog unless absolutely necessary and I feel I need to vent but I will not name or even describe people I'm talking about. I don't want to get in trouble or make people think I'm trying to start drama.

So, there you have it.

Have a great day.

Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 7

Prompt- What made today worthwhile?

Today was great for a number of reasons. First, I woke up. So, points. Second, it was one of those rare Sundays that I was able to have off work. And, that is a rarity in my day job. I work retail, specifically grocery. So, everyone and their grandmother shops on Sundays to prepare for the week. I had asked for it as soon as I was cleared to return. My manager accidentally scheduled me but she was really nice and took me off.

But, I had to have reason for the day off, right? Of course, and a very good one, too. Being born and raised in the Cleveland area, I have been surrounded my whole life with the Cleveland/Pittsburgh rivalry in football. It's kind of ingrained in us. Wait, what am I talking about? There is no 'kind of' about it. It's drilled into us from the moment we are born. (For most people) Cleveland good, Pittsburgh bad. This is not the case across the board. Back when the original Browns were moved to Baltimore to become the Ravens, people gravitated toward other teams. Some stayed on certain bandwagons, some returned to root for the home team when they returned in 1999. One of those bandwagons, unfortunately, was Pittsburgh. Why? Because they win. Sad truth, folks. They win championships and people love that. Or, there are people whose family came from Pittsburgh and that's all they know. Even if they were born and raised here.

So, in honor of that rivalry and the beginning of football season, my parish had a clam bake fund raiser and we aired the game. The food was amazing. I got to see an old friend of mine from when I worked in catering and, also, my former boss.

The game was intense and hard hitting and there were cheers and boos on both ends of the fanbase. And, while the good guys lost, it was a wonderful time nonetheless and the teasing and tormenting was all in good fun. Our pastor even is talking about making this a new tradition!

Hope you all had a great day today. Make every moment worthwhile. Find joy in the little things. The sunlight shining on the dew on a spiderweb, spending time with friends and loved-ones, a child's laughter.

Thanks for reading!
~Carey

September Writing Challenge- Day 6

Prompt- My life would be easier if...

This is a hard one. Do I really have to pick one reason? But, if I do make a list, would this turn readers off because I'm complaining too much? So, I'm just going to pick one.

My life would be easier if... I didn't have rheumatoid arthritis. I hate the fact that I am 30 years old but 5 out of 7 days of the week I feel like a miserable, 90 year old woman. If I go out with my friends and we go walking or dancing, I can't move the next day. To relieve the pain and slow down the damage on my joints, I have to take medication that can cause a bazillion other issues because of side effects. One of them is actually a medication used in higher doses as a chemo therapy. So, my hair is thinning to the point that it only looks decent if I keep it cut super short. And I love long hair. I miss long hair! But, now, I can't even put my hair in a pony tail anymore.

Another medication I'm on is a weekly injection that can destroy my immune system. So, I have to be really careful when I get sick. I even got a flu shot for the first time ever last winter and am getting it again this year. (At least I get it free through work) Bad enough I have a condition where my body is attacking itself. So, give me something that makes my immune system even weaker. What's the point of that? I almost hate to say that it does help me. But, it does. I just wish they could come up with something that didn't have such horrible side effects.

Another thing that drives me crazy is the attitudes I get from people. Rheumatoid arthritis is classified as an "invisible disease." It's not like getting the chicken pox. Okay, maybe that's a bad example but it's the first thing to pop into my brain. And, there are good days and bad. One thing I think that ruined it for me, at least at work, was a few years ago when I danced like crazy at a work Christmas party and then the next day could not move for almost a week. So, people see me hobble and think I was out partying or something and am just whining.

And, the once coworker who always gives me a hard time is just a bitch, which is the most likely scenario. This woman actually accused me (not to my face, of course, but to someone ten feet away) of faking being in pain and exhausted. One of the misconceptions is that people hear "arthritis" and think old people. But, there are other types. Osteoarthritis is, generally, the old people arthritis. Not saying younger people can't get it. If there are underlying causes, it is possible but it's rarer. Rheumatoid can effect anyone. Even children! I'm on a few Facebook groups where I can talk to other people and get their experiences and vent to people who understand and are in my situation or worse. And there are a number of parents who have children with this horrible condition and my heart just goes out to them.

There are ways to keep this condition in check. There is no cure but remission is a possibility. Watching your diet- I've been on a serious low sodium diet for a month now. I should have done it a long time ago but it took a blood clot and doctor's orders to get me to be serious about it. Salt increases inflammation. I can feel it whenever I have pepperoni pizza. Exercise can keep your muscles and joints strong. But, mostly low impact like light walking or swimming. Because heavy duty exercise can do more harm than good. I love swimming, though. After a long day, to go to the rec and jump in the pool feels so refreshing and wonderful. In the winter, I go to the rec after work, sit in the hot tub for ten minutes (the amount of time the jets last) and then jump into the pool. The temperature difference is a nice shock to the system and feels so good. I was able to walk around Key West after doing this last time I was in Florida.

I still miss the days when I could go all day long- shop, swim, walk, eat junk- and not end the day in pain. I never knew what the last half of my 20s was supposed to feel like! And 30 hasn't had an especially spectacular start.

But, I'm working on it. I have my days where I want someone to cut off my legs but my family supports me and keeps me going. I hope there are people out there with the same love and support I do.

September Writing Challenge- Day 5

Prompt- Have you ever met a celebrity?

Yes, as a matter of fact, I have. It was a dream come true to attend my first Ohio ComicCon in Columbus. My boyfriend and I went for just the day because I was cat sitting for a friend and was unable to go for the whole weekend. It was so much fun and there was so much to see.

The whole reason I really wanted to go was to meet one of my favorite actors since I was 9 years old. (Also, my first celebrity crush) Jason David Frank!

First thing we did when we arrived was get in line for autographs. I headed right for his table and was 3rd in line. I was bouncing up and down and fangirling and couldn't wait for him to come out and the autograph session to begin. He came to the table and jumped up and greeted everyone. Everyone was screaming and cheering and it was insane. Then, once it all calmed down, the signing began. I paid my $40, picked out the picture I wanted for him to sign and then it was my turn. He greeted me and I froze! I think I mumbled a "hi" and I became so nervous. He was really nice and just excited to be there as the fans were.

Later in the day, I attended a VIP meet and greet. He answered questions and talked and joked and poked fun and it was incredible. Then, for whoever wanted, people got in line and he took pictures and signed more things. A guy told him how he and his girlfriend had a shared love of the Power Rangers growing up and then proposed to his girlfriend right then and there. Jason even filmed it for his YouTube channel! We were all chanting "Say yes! Say yes!" to the girl and she said yes!

When it was my turn, I asked if he would sign my notebook that I had written a fanfiction in and then I gave him a copy of the story! I even printed it in green ink. I gave him the folder and he said, "Oh, is this for me to keep and read? Cool!" I was so excited. It was one of my favorite stories I had ever written. Since I had such a longtime love of the show, it was easy to write and I incorporated my novel character into the world which was also very easy to write. (And, just to get the show characters right, I watched MMPR again. Thank you, Netflix)

It was a dream I had had since I was 9 years old finally coming true.

My boyfriend and I are going back to Columbus Halloween weekend and this time we're staying the whole weekend! And, if I can get the money together (and it's not sold out) I want to attend another meet and greet. Going to try and drag the boy along, too. Even though he was never into Power Rangers. But, I don't want to go alone.

Thanks for reading! Did you ever meet a celebrity? Share your story in the comments below.

September Writing Challenge- Day 4

Prompt- Coffee or tea?

Both! This depends on the situation. For writing, coffee. When I can't get my hands on a cherry Pepsi, my go-to is coffee. Not black coffee, though. Bleh! I like the frappes and the coolatas and that kind of coffee that tastes like liquid candy. The one girl at Dunkin Donuts can recognize my car now and just has to ask me if I want my usual. Is that sad? I may have a problem...

Nah! ^^

When I'm out to dinner with my family, I get iced tea. But it has to be either flavored or really sweet or both. And, just enough ice to make it cold. I will drink hot tea but only when I'm sick and there is some form of alcohol mixed in. Just, regular black tea with a teaspoon of sugar and a shot of blackberry brandy. Cherry vodka is also good added in. And, since I am a lightweight already, the warmth from the tea and whatever alcohol makes me feel all warm and relaxed. I usually conk out within half an hour.

What about you? Coffee or tea?

September Writing Challenge- Day 3

Prompt- Worst movie you've ever seen (and how you would have made it better)

The worst movie I have ever seen is an adaptation of one of my favorite books. "The Other Boleyn Girl" (IMDB link) by Philippa Gregory is one of the books that got me interested in historical fiction, specifically about the Tudor era, and introduced me to one of my favorite authors. So, you can imagine my excitement when it was turned into a movie in 2008. It stars Scarlett Johansson as Mary Boleyn and Natalie Portman as her famous little sister, Anne.

I know that book adaptations are a hit-or-miss. Some are incredible and become classics, like To Kill A Mockingbird or Princess Bride. Some capture a generation. (The Harry Potter series) Some are just bleh. (Twilight) And then there's some that should have never been created in the first place. And, this turned out to be a prime example.

I also thought one of the reasons I didn't like it was the fact that I had just read the book so it was fresh in my head. And I know people do this with book to movie adaptations. (Harry Potter fans) They sit there and nit pick at all the differences or cuts. But, you have to kind of go into it with an open mind and chance the consequences of being disappointed later or end up being pleasantly surprised. Guess what happened.

I did think with the casting that it would be well done. I am not familiar with all of the works of the two leading ladies but I had seen enough to know they are quite talented. And, all done up in 16th century costuming, Natalie Portman looks like she could be Anne Boleyn. She's got the dark hair and eyes. And, she's gorgeous. Scarlett Johansson, also gorgeous. Mary Boleyn is described as pretty and fair. The sunny sister. Eric Bana, who played King Henry, I had never seen before but I think he is very good looking. Maybe not exactly how I pictured King Henry but sometimes you have to make exceptions. (Also, in looking at the IMDB cast list, Sherlock fans will be pleased to know that Benedict Cumberbatch is William Carey)

Acting was okay. This was a hit or miss situation. I did feel that some of the characters were portrayed differently than described in the book. Some either complete opposite or with not enough passion to their role. This was the case with Anne and Mary's parents. In the book, they're portrayed as really grasping and power hungry. They'll do anything to advance the family, even if it means throwing their own daughters under the carriage, so to speak, when something went wrong or accusations arose- however false they may have been. But, I didn't get that. It was more Mary and Anne and the parents were there to say "I told you not to" later on. It took away from the drama that was in the book. When I read the interactions between Mary and her parents or her uncle or Anne, or even Henry, I was glued to the page. But, I didn't get that same kind of emotion in the film. Almost wondered if any of the actors even read the book to get the right mood across. Apparently not. Henry was bleh. While he was incredibly good looking, he didn't have the fire and passion that I thought he should have. Now, this is after I've seen Jonathan Rhys Meyers play Henry in the Tudors and I fell in love with him, even when he was being an absolute creep. Because, he was so passionate in his portrayal. You wanted to love him when he was being tender. You were terrified when his temper flared. You wanted to slap him when he was being stupid. But, Eric Bana didn't do it for me.

Also, what was difficult was the idea of cramming a story that takes place over several years into a two hour film. If they wanted to really get the full impact of the story, I would have written it as a mini series. This was right around the time in pop culture when The Tudors was popular (a surprisingly good series, albeit highly inaccurate and over dramatized, but so are these books. That's the fun of historical fiction, though) so it might have worked in a similar fashion, just maybe tone down the sex because there is a LOT of it in the book. Not that I don't mind, sometimes. I primarily read YA, at least recently. But, I still like my steamy romance books. I've been reading them since I was 17. But, to get a broader audience, tone it down so it's still got the gist of the story but isn't as racy as the Tudors series was.

The story is completely twisted around. The whole point of the story is a view of the events of the court of Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn, but from Mary's point of view. She's the "other" one. The lesser known sister. But there is a lot of Anne. And, while she is a crucial part of the story, the book is about Mary's life and how she deals with being involved with Henry and then being cast aside for her ambitious sister. The one woman, up to that point, who wouldn't give the king what he wanted then and there until she got what she wanted. But, there are already so many versions of her story. I was excited to see another perspective and learn about another character in that world.

The biggest part of the story was completely glossed over. With some key players absent. Where was Cardinal Wolsey in all this? He was Henry's main adviser. And, I don't think he was in it barely at all. And then, the fact that Henry created his own Church just to grant himself a divorce. It was kind of "Oh, by the way, this happened." What? That is kind of important, you would think. It changed, not only English history, but the world in the long run.

On a few positives, I did like Scarlett Johansson as Mary. And, I liked Natalie Portman, although comparing, once again, to the Tudors series, I liked Natalie Dormer the best as Anne. But, you can't help shedding a tear or two at the end when she's executed. (And, that's not a spoiler, folks. It's history. Pick up a book.) The relationship between the two sisters, in terms of their acting, was very believable. Starting out sweet and they were close and having fun. And, over time, it sours. But, Mary still has that innocent outlook on the world that things will be okay, even when everything is falling apart.

So, maybe I'll take a screenwriting course someday and ask Philippa Gregory if I could turn the book into a mini series. Then you can get all the drama and the historical background that this film was sadly lacking.

I'd love to know your opinions. Do you agree/disagree with what I've said? Did you love this movie and think I'm insane for not liking it? What is the worst movie you've ever seen?

See you tomorrow!

September Writing Challenge- Day 2

Prompt- I threw a surprise party for... and this is what happened.

At Mom's party, December 2009
Family photo

A few years ago, I threw a surprise party for my mom's 50th birthday. My dad and my sister helped, of course. One of my aunts made the cake. And, overall, the party was a success.

The problem was keeping the secret from my mother for two whole months. I'm very close to my parents. I tell them just about everything. So, it was very difficult for me to keep this huge thing from my mom. And, as the time drew closer, I was beginning to panic about getting things done and worrying about people who were not replying as to whether or not they were coming which drives me insane. Also, people were asking me what to get Mom as a gift and I had no idea. Whenever I asked her, just casually, she would say things like "world peace" or "a cure for cancer." Totally not helping. And, when I am worried about things, it's hard to keep it contained.

So, the night before the party, my parents and I are eating dinner and I'm mentally going through all the things I have to do the next day to get ready. Mom could tell something was bothering me but every time she asked, I lied and said nothing. Finally, she says, "I know what I want for my birthday."

Without thinking, I blurt, "Oh, now you tell me."

"So you got me something," she says, curious now.

My eyes went wide, I probably went pale and in my head I'm saying, *Shit! Blabber mouth. Now what?* What I said was, "You're gonna have to wait and see."

"I bet you can't keep it til Tuesday," she said. (Her actual birthday was the Tuesday after. The party was on a Friday)

"You're gonna have to wait and see," I said again, thinking this is a vague enough reply. The whole time my dad is laughing and I was worried he was going to blab as well. But, he didn't. When my mom arrived at the party and got over her initial shock, she came over to me and said, "I knew you couldn't keep it til Tuesday."

As I said, overall, the party was a success. The people who meant most attended. We had it at the old catering hall I used to work at so some friends who were former coworkers served the food. Everything was great. I took lots of pictures and memories were made that my mom will never forget.

What about you? What are some of your surprise party experiences? Leave a comment below and share. I'd love to hear.

Thanks for reading!

Carey

September Writing Challenge Day 1

Prompt: A Current Picture and 5 Random Facts

1) I am now terrified of angel statues. I blame Steven Moffatt for this. Because he created the Weeping Angels on Doctor Who, possibly the most terrifying monster ever in the 50+ years of the series, I freak out when I see an angel statue now.

2) One of my favorite genres to read is historical fiction. For those who follow my YouTube channel, you will know that I love Philippa Gregory books. She is fantastic at historical fiction, especially her Tudor books. I'm waiting on the final of the Cousins Wars series and then going to have a massive marathon read. And, because the last book is a signed edition makes me all the more excited for it to arrive.
Also, my dad gave me an idea for my own historical fiction story. I'm tossing around some ideas for it but don't want too much of a distraction from my work-in-progress.

3) I have a beautiful, but insane, German Shepherd. A few months ago, we began fostering a dog. She's a 5 year old German Shepherd named Pepper. She's so cute and the biggest sweetie... until a small dog comes along then she goes psycho. As time went on, and we became more and more attached, we realized we couldn't let her go. So, we adopted her in late July. She's fun and sweet and bat crap crazy but we love her anyway.

4) I think I might be a teeny bit addicted to Pinterest. I could spend hours on that site! Looking at everything and anything. Whether it's ideas for when I get my own place, wedding ideas (even though I'm not even engaged yet. But, hey. Who says I can't look now?) tons of recipes and writing inspiration. I have had many a sleepless nights due to Pinterest. So, if you want to see some of the things I have found during the hours I should be sleeping, here's the link to my page.

5) I'm going to Ohio ComicCon next month!! SO excited about this! Now, granted, I'm going to have to be ridiculously stingy. I just got back to work after being on sick leave for over a month and I'm going to need every penny I can for this trip. My boyfriend is being super amazing and said he'd cover the hotel cost which helps a lot but there are two people I want to get autographs from and a meet and greet I want to attend SO badly I could cry. Unlike last year, we are going for the whole weekend. We learned that there is just too much there to see in a day and it was just too exhausting. So, we're going to take our time and look around and enjoy ourselves. This is, I guess, our first vacation together. Also exciting.